We are home from surgery!

July 18th, 2007

We are now home from the surgery. Things went well enough that my son could be released the same day. He went in surgery at 8:45am and came out about 11:30am. The doctors removed his appendix, scar tissue and the crystallized part from the appendix rupture. Everything went well. He slept most of the day and ate at around 4:00pm, got up and walked around, etc. and so he was allowed to go home. He still has a lot of recovery this week, but he wanted to show them how much he wanted to go home. That’s my son for you! :P I need to monitor his pain, etc. for the rest of the week. He is allowed to swim in 4-5 days. THAT made him happy!

He is sleeping right now and seems comfortable. We are all relieved…especially ME! *whew

Thanks for your prayers and well wishes!

My Son’s Surgery

July 16th, 2007

I am just going to make a quick blog post here since I have a million things to do before bed. My son is due to have his surgery tomorrow. We will be going in early and staying overnight. Once I get home and get him situated, I will check in and make another post about how things went. We are both nervous about it. But, better to take care of that ole’ appendix so that it doesn’t happen again.

Not sure what this is about fully? Read my previous blog post about my son and his ruptured appendix.

Basically, he is fully healed. He is happy and has gained much of his weight back now.
We were told that some doctors may even leave it alone after he was well again. However, these doctors think it is best to remove the appendix as there is always a chance of getting appendicitis again. It really depends on where the rupture happened. It could have just been a split, or the end could have ruptured leaving the rest of the appendix in tact. They won’t know until they get in there.

This is supposed to be an outpatient overnight surgery. So hopefully all goes well. I feel pretty good about it, just a bit nervous and protective of my son. :)

~Wendy

My Exciting News - Video … ( Actor Sean Patrick Flanery )

June 26th, 2007

I can’t believe my littlest guy is now 8 years old today! He is excited and very happy on his birthday.Well, I have had very limited internet access since yesterday. I can’t understand how satellite can cost so much and still not allow near as much as DSL in usage. Verizon guys are coming today to hopefully fix our phone lines and DSL that were knocked out by a lightning storm.I will get back to everyone as soon as I can. I am starting to feel like my head is coming out of a fog from this bad cold.

The Exciting stuff is… I am working with actor Sean Patrick Flanery on his Official website for fans. He has been in such films as Boondock Saints, Powder and so many more! You will find his IMDB link on the website.

Here is a video that I just put up in the wee hours of the morning of him announcing his new website…

** www.seanflanery.com **

You Tube Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c__elaI5aBs

He is also on MySpace, so go - Add him as a friend for new videos and updates!

Help me spread the word about this by posting this on your website or by sending to your family and friends. Let’s see how many people we can reach!

Woohoo!

~Wendy Shepherd .com

Woohoo! June Stuff

June 24th, 2007

I thought it was time to do an update. :P

My son is doing well. We have a Dr. appointment this coming week and we will then find out when his surgery will be to remove his ruptured appendix. My whole family got hit by nasty colds, but we should be pretty much over them in a few days.

Lots of things happening, as always in my neck of the woods. I’ll cover more of that at a later date. I have some catching up to do, some interviews to weave and if you are waiting to hear from me, it won’t be long. I’ll email you soon! ;)

My friends are busy with lots of neat things as well. A few I can mention about are:

* Brett made a new song called “Tightrope” - Listen here (*Brett, waiting for your reply on what that tv debut is about. :) )

* The ’soopa’ multi-talented Paul, Rob, and Zara are working on a film called “FUROR” - More Details Here
They are all part of Soopa 8 run by Sid who is also super nice.

* Will is progressing with the Cowboy Smoke film. Please tell family and friends to go view the film trailer and leave comments of their thoughts - View here (Official Site)

* Some rumbling going on with James and Cory, which I’ll share soon. Fun stuff.

* Arin and Susan have posted their full feature film on YouTube until August 15. They are the first to feature a full film on YouTube - View Here

* Mike Hedge is taking an Eco Trip across the USA - Read More

* Dan was on the show THE LOT and had to come up with a beautiful short film. Letting Go - View here

If I forgot to mention anyone, I am sorry. I still suffer from a stuffy head. :P By the way, I found that sucking on ice helped my laryngitis. I almost had it full blown and was drinking lots of fluids, but the ice helped the most. Maybe it was the contstant moisture or the cold that helped the swelling. I am getting better and very happy to get things back to normal.

Feel free to post your latest happenings in the comments section below to share.

Personal note: My son turns 8 years old this coming week and my husband and I will celebrate our 20th anniversary on June 30. I still love him with all of my heart! My one true love. We were so made for each other! :)

Watch here for future exciting things. Make sure to subscribe to this blog in the right hand column

My son in the hospital…

June 5th, 2007

I thought I would post this info in case others would be able to benefit from it. I may update this post later with more details that may be helpful…

The last two weeks have been really hard for us here. My 11 yr old son (Timothy) got sick, with what we thought was the stomach flu. He had the usual symptoms like a flu, seemed to start getting better a little bit, then got worse. I took him to the emergency room because as much as we were doing for him, trying to keep him hydrated and back to eating didn’t seem to be working. He had no appetite. I had even been talking with the doctors on the phone and we all treated it as a stomach virus. I had a strange feeling one night after trying to sleep for an hour near him… and decided to call the doctor again. This time he agreed that I should take him in. So, at 2:00 am, I drove him 20 minutes to the emergency room in Gettysburg, PA, which is closest to where we live. After many hours, the next afternoon we were told he had a ruptured appendix with a large abscess and very high white blood cell count. They called for transport to take the both of us to Penn State Children’s Hospital and we stayed there for a week until he was released yesterday.

They put a stomach tube in where the large abscess was and drained it. Through the whole order of IVs and blood tests, etc. he got poked 11 times, poor thing. :( Things look better, but he is still weak and recovering here at home. He is on two separate antibiotics that are taken at four different times a day for three weeks. He lost a lot of weight and is still trying to get a full appetite back. In 4-6 weeks he will have his appendix removed.

That night that I decided to take him to the emergency room, I was checking on him after I slept for an hour. He wasn’t easy to rouse to get him to drink some more fluids, and he was sleeping but was lying in a crooked position. So, I went to straighten him up and accidently touched his stomach which made him come out of a deep sleep with a big “ouch”. That is when I decided to call the doctor. By that time in his illness, his stomach muscles shouldn’t hurt anymore from throwing up. Something else seemed wrong.

When they checked him at the emergency room, his left side hurt. You would think with an appendix problem, it would be in his right side, where the appendix is. But, at that point, the pain was from swelling from an abscess located in his abdomen in a different area. One more odd thing that I noticed that day is that he had a strange smell on his breath. I mentioned it to the doctor. At first they thought he maybe had a kidney infection. After the CT Scan, they realized it was a ruptured appendix and that he had a large abscess of puss that was very infectious. That was mostly what was making him sick. He also had a very elevated white blood cell count. Usually that means his body had kicked into gear to try and fight infection. But, from what I saw come out, and how the surgeons mentioned the abscess was VERY infectious, it seemed we got him help just in time.

It has been an extremely stressful, upsetting, scary thing to go through with him. He was so sick and weak. There was so much to drain out. It was dangerous for him. We are exhausted. *sigh.

Anyways, I have lots to do here to help him heal and have laundry, bills, and chores to catch up on, not to mention sleep and mental relaxation. I can’t seem to turn this whole thing off enough to relax. I held a lot of stuff in to be strong for him and keep him calm as I could through the whole process. We were definitely scared.

I can say one thing for sure, the whole nursing staff and surgeons for the pediatric care at Penn State Children’s Hospital in Hershey were really excellent!

My Breakdancing Memories

May 21st, 2007

In April of 1984, when I lived in sunny, hot Arizona, I was part of a breakdancing group. We had a whole gang of us who liked to learn about different moves and practice constantly at a local elementary school called, Carmichael School.

A couple of girl friends and I formed a group called ‘Level 3′. Their names were Jennifer and Vicki. Our colors were black and white. We had cute little matching black and white shirts with our name put on the back, which we would wear with solid color pants.

I remember how we performed at a library once for some elderly folks and children. I was nervous performing in front of people I didn’t know, but I was better once I started doing the routine.

I have some old photos below of our group and some of the other kids we hung out with. On the back of one of the photos, I have a list of the kids in the group so that I wouldn’t forget them. I have no idea where they are now or what they are doing in life.

I also have a newspaper clipping of the ‘guy group’ within our breakdancing friends, who called themselves ‘System 7′. They were quite popular and performed all over places in Arizona. I have an old clipping from our school paper that tells about them and the places they performed. I do remember having fun with all of our break dancing friends.

Here are the old photos; I put my name under where I am located…

Book Review - The Online Millionaire

May 18th, 2007

The Online Millionaire
Strategies for Building a Web-Based Empire on eBay and Beyond

The Online Millionaire Don’t let the word “Millionaire” scare you away from getting your hands on this book. When you are armed with the right knowledge, tools, and willpower, the possibilities are endless.

It is written by Amy Joyner. She previously wrote the book “The eBay Millionaire” and other numerous books. She also runs her own successful eBay business and has quite a history as a business and technology reporter.

If you are familiar with selling items on eBay and/or selling items from your own website, you will really enjoy the opportunities described in each chapter of this book. You’ll be shown ideas of how to expand exposure for your business.

Amy presents information in an easy to follow layout and includes an Action Plan in each chapter. Topics range from auctions and other online marketplaces to the tools that are available to help you streamline your business.

You will also read two to three success stories within each section. I thoroughly enjoyed reading these and I will definitely refer to them again for inspiration. You won’t feel alone when you learn how some current thriving businesses started out of necessity and with hardly any available financing. Amy does a great job relating the stories, including mine, which is the last story in the book about success with Affiliate Programs.

Think of this as a must-have reference… a road map to kick your business into high gear.

- More Details

- Buy the Book

Interview with Four Eyed Monsters: Arin Crumley and Susan Buice

May 17th, 2007

I just finished an interview with Arin Crumley of Four Eyed Monsters. I have posted it on my Dreamish.com as well as my movie sites, but I thought I would share it with my friends here as well. :)

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] I have been watching the progress of Arin and Susan with their project, the Four Eyed Monsters film, for quite a while now. They have been showing their story through podcasts, blog posts, and newsletter updates. They have been using just about every media available to help with exposure for their work. They have presented an intriquing way to gain the interest of their audience. They are determined and creative. However, they still need help.

The internet has allowed people to decide what they want to watch and hear while pushing aside much of the pre-processed material that tends to get thrust out into the public. Arin and Susan have gained many fans on their own without the usual distribution methods and old dictated process of having a film created and made available to the public.

Along their journey, they also selflessly help to promote others in the music and media world.

We have all been there… in the beginning of starting our own lives… and finding someone to share our lives with in a relationship…

I wanted to share Arin and Susan’s story with you, so I asked to collaborate on an interview with them….

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] When did your journey begin with the Four Eyes Monsters project?

[Arin Crumley] Well I guess pretty much when we met each other in September of 2002. But we started working on the film to convey our experiences around November of 2003. Finished a rough cut about a year later, showed the rough cut at Slamdance 2005, then showed a less rough in our self distribution theatrical release in September of 2006 and finally had a final cut we released on the DVD off our website on March 31st of this year. So its been a long road.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] When you started the project, did you have any experience or education in the film field?

[Arin Crumley] I had a lot of technical experience in shooting and editing video and Susan had been learning for a year. She has a fine art background and I didn’t go to college.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] With Episode 1 “In the beginning”, you expressed how you were creative, but not able to find a way to communicate it. How have things changed since the beginning, now that you have given everyone a window to view your world and your relationship.

[Arin Crumley] Hmm. Still trapped inside the confines of my brain. But I guess maybe I’ve let others peer in?

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] In Episode 1, you mentioned how you started your project. Did you quit your jobs to be able to work as needed on the project? How many hours a day did you tend to put into the creation process?

[Arin Crumley] Well this project has been 10 to 18 hour days or longer for about 3 and a half years. Yes, I know, crazy. But sometimes we’ll take a day off for rest or for paid work. But no real jobs. Just “gigs” basically. But this is like once a week at the most, and more for Susan then for me, I pretty much never take gigs anymore, there just isn’t time. So we go without money if we have to.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] In Episode 1 & 2 “The Investment”, you mentioned how financing the film was done by using credit cards and help from family. Were you aware of how much it would cost to create this film? Was it impossible to get any financial investor backing for your project?

[Arin Crumley] Yes, it was impossible to get a financial backer. We had no track record of any kind. No script. No indication that we had anything. Just some ideas in our heads. And further more, to have tried to first convey this all to some backer would have killed our process. Similar to the reason we don’t have backing for our next project. And if we can’t even get backing for our next project, surely there is no way in gods name we could have done it for our first.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] Was the Four Eyed Monster website created in the beginning of the project? Did you design and set it up yourself?

[Arin Crumley] We made www.foureyedmonsters.com a few weeks before going out to slamdance in 2005. We needed a place for their site to link to. The way back machine has a pretty funny early version of our site. It was nothing like the RSSing, podcasting, blogging, open source 2.0 mega word press site we have today.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] What other types of internet avenues did you use? (I remember trying to make it to the Second Life screening, but my computer wouldn’t cooperate while in there.) Which avenues were the most valuable to bringing new viewers? What seemed to be the hardest to deal with?

[Arin Crumley] Podcasting. Simple. That is the future of entertainment. Bits of media that come to you automatically if your subscribed. No TV channel has that. No major studio has that. No radio DJ has that. When we make a new video or have a new trailer or post a new short episode or have a video invitation, our subscribers get it. They’ve basically pleged by subscribing that they want to hear from us. They want to know what we are up to and see what ever we make and put up there. It’s the single most powerful thing we’ve done online and it’s the reason we were able to do everything else we’ve done online. Once you have a fan base, you can mess around, experiment, do crazy things like screen the film in the 3D world of Second Life and have avatars sitting in theater seats in a virtual space. That was probably taking things too far by the way, but it’s been fun experimenting in this world of media and technology innovation that is being re-invented before our eyes.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] In Episode 3 “Pretend”, I love how you show the real and genuine side of working on the project through these episodes. You started developing problems in your relationship due to the stress involved in getting the film ready for the Slamdance film festival. Is there anything you would have done differently if you got to do it all over again?

[Arin Crumley] Relationships and projects are not the same thing. But at the time the Episode 3 material was filmed, we thought they were the same thing. That’s how in it we were.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] Along came…

Episode 3.5,

Episode 4 “Waiting For Crumley”,

Episode 5 “Losers”,

Episode 6 “Inside the Acting Studio”,

Episode 7 “If you give a mouse a cookie…” and

Episode 8 “The Family Meeting”

You show how you had a stalled moment, a rollercoaster ride of emotions, exhaustion, a break in trust during your trip to Slamdance, and relationship breakdowns. They are dramatic episodes showing what can happen in the film industry. Do you feel as though you were taken advantage of since you were new to the process? Would you have contracts and specific roles written up in the future and do things a bit more formal?

[Arin Crumley] No. I don’t plan to use contracts in the future. In fact, I plan to get even more organic with the collaboration. And I think the solution to the credits problem is meta data. That’s all everyone wanted. They just wanted a way to know who was in-front and who was on set for every scene. Our next project is going to have meta data like that. And then there can be no credits because it’s all accessible online.

They say it’s bad to wait until a project is done to then go in and try to get contracts, I agree, if you have a normal project with normal roles, absolutely, but if you want to be fluid, I stand behind not asking people to sign until the end, that way you can know for sure, it hasn’t hurt the work in anyway.

The other thing to do is have people sign something the moment you meet them. Honestly, I’ve done that too, had people sign releases when they come to the audition, then forget all about it.

Bottom line, contracts are weird. They just are. They rub everyone the wrong way. They keep people awake at night. Why, because they relate to money. Which is ridiculous to have had a problem with a film like Four Eyed Monsters that has made no money to speak of. But the second your relationships start having this clinical monetary tinge. That’s when it gets weird. And that’s across the board. Susan and I deciding to marry our finances turned into problems. Actors wondering what their financial compensation for their contributions would be caused problems. And I’d even go as far as to say our connection with our audience has been slightly offended due to us selling t-shirts and DVDs and soon downloads of our feature film. I wish there was another way. I have a big problem with money and what it does to social and collaborative dynamics..

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] You created these podcast episodes with some incredible music. Did you have pay to use the music or was it a collaborative co-promotion arrangement?

[Arin Crumley] Oh my god, more on the money tip. Now so far that’s all been fine. Indie bands are completely fine trading exposure for use of music. They are in the same situation as us, they are running from obscurity and chasing exposure to avoid curling up and dying.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] The DVD is now available with original artwork, all of the episodes, and more. I am anxious and look forward to receiving the copy I have ordered. How are things going with this part of the process?

[Arin Crumley] As of May 15th we’ve sold 750 DVDs. We are pretty happy about that. But the goal is to sell 5,000 during 2007, so we have to pick up the pace if we are going to get there. That will get us out of debt from making the film. And our future goal will of course be to make more projects once we are in the clear from this one.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] Your vision is something that will inspire many people. What are you doing these days to move forward?

[Arin Crumley] Well I’ve been writing tutorials for other filmmakers on our website and collecting ideas and experiences for our next project. Susan has been doing photo documentation of various things and editing a bunch of material we will be posting later. And finally, I try to constantly zoom out. I’ve been studying the way our financial system works, how it really works and the corruption there and also paying way more attention to world politics. So what does it matter to be making personal work in a world where humanity is clearly sick on a larger societal scale. Well the answer I have thus far is that if individuals were okay in their lives, if they were okay in their relationships, maybe we wouldn’t have the genocidal and self destructive human race. Maybe we would have a loving-caring, and understanding human race.

[Wendy at Dreamish.com] Thanks Arin!

Arin and Susan are very talented and can use everyone’s support. :)

- Visit the Four Eyed Monsters website - Watch the Film Trailer- Order the DVD & t-shirts

- Visit the Official MySpace for Four Eyed Monsters


I hope you enjoyed it.

I wrote … Resale Mode …

May 13th, 2007

Yes, I finally finished writing the first in about eight ebooks that I have planned. I am sharing information I have learned in my 10 years of being online earning an income. Lots of people have asked for info from me over the years and with the increase in this, I have decided to digitally publish what I know to make it easier to reference it to others. I also had planned to write a book one day that would encourage my children and other people. This is the beginning of that journey.

During the end of last year I started outlining and sorting questions. The holidays kept me from writing too much. Then I got into a funk for a few months at the beginning of this year, but I still wrote more. I was determined as I usually get when I am passionate about something. I set aside time when I could, mostly on the weekends, or in the evening, and finished one. Then I sent it to be looked over by some family members and a couple of friends.

The beauty of a digital book is that changes, adjustments, and additions can be done as desired. This is version one… and so I have just begun. :) I will then publish these offline as well in the near future.

Here is the post I made on my business blog…

I have finished writing and released the first version of my new ebook (digital book).

This ebook is about one of the first ways I started earning income online while I was able to stay home with my children. It includes information for people who want to learn how to resell online. There are also sections that include answers to some of the questions my website readers asked.

There are two versions of the ebook. One with information only and the other has some step-by-step directions on how to sign up for ebay and paypal and comes with five bonus printables.

The first 100 orders of ‘Option 2′ get a special deal…
Resale Mode
Resale Mode

If you are looking to earn a few bucks on the side or looking to have a full blown business, start with this ebook to save time researching how to start with reselling and auctions.

What will you find in this ebook?
- Reselling and Auctions
- Yard Sale Hints and Tips
- Selling Online
- Reselling Online Overview
- Start Up Costs
- Accepting Payments
- Creating Crafts To Sell
- Types of items to sell
- Marketing
- Safety
- Resources
- Answers To 14 Questions
- And More!

Just think, you can spend money on dvds, cds, etc. Or buy an ebook to help you learn how to earn money online from your home. … www.resalemode.com

*** If you or someone you know has been successful at reselling items, have them drop me a line and let me know their story. If inspiring, I would like to add it to the ebook and include a link to their online store. I will accept a limited number of these.

Please forward to this to anyone you think would be interested. I really appreciate it. :)
Oh… and if you do forward it, let me know! I would like to thank you!

Lost

May 4th, 2007

LostI absolutely love watching LOST. My son and I watch it each Wednesday. Last night we found ourselves watching the first season DVD just to refresh and see if we could tie together some clues we may not have noticed before… especially the people who are connected.

This last episode of LOST was awesome. I love the way the show is one big puzzle with a taste of sci-fi.

However, I have to say, the selection of LOST apparel and goodies in the online store don’t seem very desirable. With such a popular show, there should be some cool things for fans, like us, to buy! They are missing out on some serious sale dollars. I could come up with better ideas. See what I mean? …
http://abctvstore.seenon.com/index.php?v=lost

So, what are your theories about how everyone seems to be connected? Who are your favorite characters and why? Who is to be trusted and who isn’t? Did they all die on the plane or is this a big cover up to throw these folks into a big science experiment?

This show rocks, eh?!!